A Survival GuideFor Parents of Guitar Students |
The basic routine for studying music hasn’t changed much over the years. The student comes to lesson and is given material to learn. Student goes home and practices the material then returns and plays it for teacher. If needed, corrections are made and new material is presented as the student advances. The cycle repeats.
I write student assignments in an 8 1/2 x 11, spiral bound notebook. (see "What You Need") I will also mark items in the Method, Technic and other books or papers. In a perfect world the two will match. However, if I make a mistake and only mark one place, it is still an assignment and I expect them to practice it. It is the student’s responsibility to know their assignments. If there are questions, call or email me. (see "Contact")
It is important for any student that the parents support her/his efforts. This includes helping them to establish a practice routine and then monitoring that practice. The consistent message must be "Practice is not optional". You are the enforcer. Be firm and consistent. Daily practice will eventually become a habit.
It is also the parent's job to make sure that the student has necessities on hand such as picks, spare strings, a tuner and other supplies which the teacher may suggest. This gives the student the best chance to benefit from his/her instruction.
Many students need help in organizing their practice space and materials. Since each student’s situation is unique, I can’t give specific advice here but an orderly, well lit practice space is important.
Some have difficulty getting "packed up" to go to their lesson. I recommend getting all books and supplies ready to go the night before. I also stress that this is the students job. However, it doesn’t hurt to check on them until you know that they are reliable. If a student isn’t prepared for their lesson, it can be a waste of time and money.
Studying a musical instrument is a part of your child’s education. Just like school they need to attend regularly and do their homework. Lessons should not be cancelled for frivolous reasons or because it’s inconvenient. It’s your job to make it work. That sends the message that this is important.
Don’t be afraid to tell the coach that your child will be late to practice because she has a guitar lesson. Frequent or extensive cancellations for sports or other extra curricular activities may result in loss of your time slot.